Showing posts with label serenity now. Show all posts
Showing posts with label serenity now. Show all posts

Thursday, July 15, 2010

The Quest for Peace

Lately, my temper has run rampant. Unmet expectations build frustration. Dobson barks. I tell him to stop. He doesn't. I get mad. I want to drive fast to work. I get behind a slow driver. I get mad. The time crunch hasn't helped. I'm stressing myself out.

During this morning's spell of road rage, I had one of those moments. You know the ones, where you actually see yourself acting like a jackass. "This is not the person I want to be," I thought to myself as I held up my middle finger to the gentleman who executed a tight passing maneuver over a double yellow line to leapfrog me and then the guy who was driving 35 mph in a 45 mph zone.

Boiled down, my frustration arises from not being able to do what I want do. The Tao Te Ching says, "Acting with no expectations, leading and not trying to control: this is a supreme virtue." Or as my grandma would say, "Hope in one hand, shit in the other, and see which one gets filled first."

The lesson is the same: I can't control what happens. I might as well make peace with that. It's time for an attitude adjustment.

Quitness Sells Out
So much for drowning my tears in the latest local beer. I reported Tuesday that Great Lakes Brewing Co. was releasing a limited edition beer to commemorate Cleveland's most recent sports related misery. Great Lakes tapped Quitness yesterday afternoon. It sold out last night.